Response to Neeru

This is interesting to hear your experiences and I am sorry to hear they always have to end this way. I mean I have been friends with a girl since I was in 1st grade and maybe when you become so close so young it is different then when your an adult. I find it rather interesting how you become someone who thinks you are just there as a shoulder to lean on then they throw you a curve ball and express themselves to you in a way you did not think was possible. What makes it worse is you don't want to be the reason he leaves his wife nor will you feel the same after he expresses himself to you. I think why guys dont express themselves to women is they are afraid of what happened to him. Being to open will only lead them to loosing the person so they hold everything in that is why men are the way they are when it comes to talking about things.